Girls: They can be so awful to each other it is ridiculous. I hate admitting that I used to be one of THOSE girls. You know the ones I'm talking about. The ones that cause drama, gossip about others, put others down for ridiculous things...yes, a shady mean girl.
Times have changed and so have I. I no longer find pleasure in putting others down, making fun of people, sharing rumors I have heard about others. Instead, I look at girls that still have yet to grow up and feel bad for them. The happiest I have been in my life is right now. This very moment. It has taken awhile for me to be able to brush off the rude things people have to say about me. I finally realize that in all reality, the people that talk badly about other people are only defining who they are as a person. Character comes from how you define yourself...ex) what you say about others, how you react in situations, and even just your actions in themselves. If people listen to what others have to say about you and use that to define who you are, then they are not mature enough to realize that even the most amazing people in the world have had negative things said about them. It is time to rise above the bullshit and grow up. Time to realize that we are all human beings and we all make mistakes. Our mistakes do not define who we are as people, what we do after we make the mistakes does.
It simply amazes me that I really used to be one of those girls. I am so glad that I find joy in making others happy and not focusing on how rude people can be. What they don't realize is that the more they speak my name and talk badly about me, the more motivated I am to prove them, and everyone wrong. I believe in myself, and although there is always room for improvement, I'm beginning to love who I am now and that is enough for me :)
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